Author: Genx

Our daily lives are filled with countless events and information. Sometimes, we get so caught up in work, household chores, or studies that we end up feeling exhausted. However, even in the midst of such busy days, those who can spend more time thinking about “fun things” are often the ones who live happier lives.

In the world we live in, countless events and relationships exist. Natural phenomena, human connections, work, hobbies, learning… Are these occurrences merely the result of random chance, or is there something like “connections” (referred to as “en” or “縁” in Japanese) working behind the scenes?

In Buddhism, there is a concept called “pratītyasamutpāda,” or “dependent origination.” It suggests that “all phenomena in this world arise from various causes and conditions (connections).” Our experiences, the people we meet, and everything we encounter happen because of the intricate web of “connections.” But how exactly do these “connections” shape the world around us?

In our relationships, most of us have probably felt, at one time or another, the urge to change the other person. Whether it’s a friend, partner, family member, or coworker, it’s common to wish they would “act differently” or question, “Why do they do that?” However, it is important to be aware of this simple truth: trying to change others will only cause you suffering.

Have you ever noticed how the words you casually say can affect your mood? For instance, when you say, “I’m so tired,” you may start to feel even more drained, or when you say, “I can do this!” you might find a surge of motivation. This isn’t just a coincidence; it’s a phenomenon rooted in how the brain functions. The human brain is designed in a way that our emotions are influenced by the words we speak.

In our daily lives and work, we’ve all had moments where we think, “I wish I had better luck.” Sometimes, when we see successful people, we might attribute their success to sheer luck. However, luck isn’t always a random occurrence; it can also be something we attract through our actions. One way to draw good luck towards ourselves is by “listening to and considering others’ opinions as much as possible.”

In this article, we’ll explore the theme of “why listening to others’ opinions can bring good luck,” discussing the reasons and effective ways to incorporate this practice into our lives.

When you do a kind deed for someone, it’s easy to think, “They will be grateful” or “I might get something in return.” However, life doesn’t always go as expected. Sometimes, the person you helped shows no reaction, or worse, might even respond negatively. In those moments, you might feel disappointed and think, “Why does it feel like I’m the only one losing out?”

But if you understand the idea that “When you give something to someone, it will come back to you, even if not from the same person,” you might find some comfort in those situations. Let’s explore this theme further.

Life presents us with a wide range of experiences. When things don’t go as planned or unexpected events occur, it’s easy to feel anxious or frustrated. However, when we adopt the perspective that “everything happens at the perfect timing,” it gives the current situation a different meaning. This article explores this theme and aims to offer some insights to help ease your mind.

Everyone has flaws. These imperfections can greatly influence how we view ourselves and how others perceive us. Many people go to great lengths to hide their flaws, often resulting in stress and pressure. However, accepting and not concealing your flaws can actually make life much more enjoyable and relaxed.

In this article, let’s explore why embracing your flaws can lead to a more fulfilling life.

Life is a series of choices. From the school we attend, the jobs we take, to the relationships we build—every day, we are faced with countless decisions, ranging from the small and mundane to those that shape our lives. It’s natural to wonder whether these choices were right or wrong, successful or unsuccessful. However, is it really that simple?

In reality, there is no clear distinction between “success” and “failure” in life. What truly matters is how you perceive your choices afterward and how you continue to live. The key to a successful life lies in whether you can look back and say, “This was the right choice for me!”

We all have dreams and desires that we strive to fulfill. However, ironically, one of the most important steps to making those dreams a reality is to “let go” of them, at least temporarily.

You might be thinking, “Wait, does that mean I have to give up on my dreams?” Not quite. What I’m suggesting here is not letting go of the dream itself, but rather letting go of the sense of lack that often accompanies it. This subtle shift is key to manifesting what you truly desire.