When running a blog, I constantly face the dilemma: “Should I split or merge my content?” “Should I aim for order or embrace chaos?” “Should I pursue consistency or allow for variety?” This struggle is especially deep for people with ADHD tendencies, those with many interests, or anyone who finds it hard to wear different masks and prefers to present their whole self authentically.
The Endless Loop of Splitting and Merging
- When I have multiple sites or projects, I feel like I can’t give each one the love and energy it deserves. So I decide to merge everything and express my “true self” in one place.
- But once I merge, everything becomes a jumble of topics and information, and I lose sight of the big picture—I get lost. Eventually, I think, “Maybe I should split things up again…” and the cycle repeats itself.
The Trap of Categories and Tags
- Even if I organize my blog with categories and tags, it feels like nothing gets a strong spotlight, and the whole thing becomes blurry.
- Too many categories or a reverse-chronological list of posts can be overwhelming, making it hard to know what to focus on.
- Even if I try changing themes, using random post displays, or creating featured sections, I end up feeling guilty about neglecting other posts.
The Struggle of Wanting to Be “My Whole Self”
- Splitting myself into “Beatmaker Genx”, “AI Artist Genx”, “Blogger Genx” (or my own versions of these) feels unnatural and exhausting. I want to share everything as my whole self, not as separate personas.
- But if I don’t split, things get chaotic; if I do split, I feel like I’m diluting who I am.
Hints for Solutions
- Make “yourself” the core
Categories and tags are just tools for organizing topics. If your experiences and values are the backbone of your blog, even a variety of content will still feel like “your blog.” - Set a “loose” main theme
It’s fine to run a general blog, but having a loose direction—like “daily insights + hobbies + work”—can provide a sense of security. - Limit the number of categories / use subcategories
Keeping to 3–5 main categories, with tags or subcategories for more detail, helps prevent the overall focus from becoming too diffuse. - Use random or featured sections to rotate visibility
Multiple random or featured sections (like “This Month’s Picks”) help rotate the spotlight and ease guilt about neglecting some posts. - Give up on “perfect equality”
It’s impossible to keep all posts and categories equally visible at all times. Enjoy spotlighting one post at a time. - Prioritize your own comfort in site design
Reader experience matters, but your ability to keep blogging without stress comes first.
Differences in Attitude Toward AI Are Part of Authenticity, Too
- Even people with similar struggles and personalities can feel very differently about AI. Some hate it; others love using it for organization or creativity. That, too, is part of what makes each of us unique.
Conclusion
- Whether you run a general or niche blog, prefer order or chaos, AI or analog—there is no single “right answer.”
- If you want to be your whole self, don’t force yourself to split; instead, find a way to blog that feels fun and sustainable for you.
- Categories and display methods are just tools. If you feel overwhelmed, don’t over-organize—it’s fine to let things be a bit messy.
- Don’t chase perfection. Find a blogging style that feels comfortable for you right now.
Don’t write for someone else or for SEO—write for yourself. That’s what will keep you going, and that’s what makes your blog truly “yours.”
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