Life is Mostly “The Power of Others”

We often believe that our lives are shaped solely by our own will and effort, but in reality, it’s far more complex. When we look back, we realize that many moments and events have been supported and shaped by the power of others, or what we might call “the power of others.” So, what exactly is this “power of others,” and why can we say that most of our lives are driven by it?

What is “The Power of Others”?

At first glance, the phrase “power of others” might seem like relying on others or depending on them excessively. However, in this context, it means more than simple dependence or leaning on someone else. It refers to a broader concept encompassing the influence of the people around us, our environment, and even the coincidences that occur in life. In Buddhism, there is a concept called “Tariki Hongan,” which means being saved by the power of Amida Buddha. However, in everyday life, “the power of others” is more grounded and practical.

For instance, we grow up supported by the love and care of our parents and family. We learn from our teachers and friends at school. As adults, we rely on the cooperation of colleagues and superiors at work, and sometimes we even benefit from the kindness of strangers. All of this constitutes “the power of others.” We cannot grow and succeed purely on our own. Our lives move forward only because of the help and support of others.

Balancing Self-Power and the Power of Others

Of course, our own efforts, determination, and what we might call “self-power” are also important in life. Striving for dreams and working hard to achieve goals is commendable. However, no matter how hard we try, the outcomes are not always determined solely by our own efforts.

For example, in the business world, no matter how brilliant your ideas or strategies are, the market trends, economic conditions, and customer responses—which are beyond your control—play a significant role in the outcome. In sports, the weather and the opponent’s condition can greatly influence the result, regardless of one’s skill or training.

In these situations, overestimating our own power can lead to frustration when faced with unexpected results. On the other hand, recognizing the existence of “the power of others” and being humble enough to appreciate the support and changes in circumstances can help us overcome adversity. Being aware of the balance between self-power and the power of others allows us to accept life’s challenges more flexibly.

How to Embrace the Power of Others

How, then, can we live a life that effectively embraces the power of others? The key is to not only accept the power of others but also strive to be a source of power for those around us.

1. Cultivate Gratitude
   When you feel the power of others, it’s important to have a sense of gratitude. Show appreciation for the love and support of family, friends, colleagues, and even the kindness of strangers. This attitude of gratitude strengthens trust with those around you, which in turn attracts more support and positive energy into your life.
2. Extend a Helping Hand to Others
   Don’t just receive the power of others; strive to be a source of support for others as well. By offering help when someone is in need, you become a part of their “power of others,” and this positive energy eventually circles back to benefit you as well.
3. Maintain Humility
   Always keep in mind that your success and growth are not solely the result of your own efforts. A humble attitude makes it easier to gain the cooperation of others, and as a result, you are more likely to benefit from the power of others in various aspects of life.

Enjoying the “Power of Others” in Life

In the end, life is enriched by the power of others. By accepting this power, unexpected events and encounters add color to our lives, opening up paths we never could have imagined. Instead of trying to control everything with our own power, surrendering to the power of others allows us to lead a freer and more enjoyable life.

Life moves forward because of the power of others. When we can accept, appreciate, and enjoy this power, we can truly live a richer, more fulfilling life.