In our daily lives, we constantly face pressure from various media and people around us, telling us that we need to “grow more” or “get closer to an ideal.” We often find ourselves comparing with others, feeling that we are “not quite there yet.” But let’s take a moment to pause and think: is that really true? Perhaps we are already “perfect beings” just as we are.
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Redefining “Perfection”
First, let’s consider what “perfection” actually means. Most people think of it as being “flawless and complete.” But where does that standard come from? Is it shaped by how others see us, by the ideals society has created, or is it a reflection of our own sense of lack?
Let’s try changing the definition of “perfection” for a moment. What if “perfection” means “being exactly who you are, right now, in this moment”? In other words, you are perfect at every moment, regardless of your state. This includes embracing your flaws, failures, uncertainties, and fears. It’s about accepting your whole self, just as you are.
Embracing “The Now”
We often find ourselves wanting to “be better,” but if we constantly deny who we are in the present, we may end up feeling anxious and dissatisfied about the future as well. That’s why it’s important to accept who you are “in the now.” This means acknowledging your flaws and imperfections and saying, “This is who I am.” Isn’t that the true essence of being “perfect”?
Growth is a wonderful thing, but it shouldn’t come from a mindset of “I’m not good enough as I am, so I need to change.” Rather, it should stem from “I’m already wonderful, so I want to explore more and enjoy this journey of growth.”
Your Unique Perfection
You have a unique personality, talents, and experiences that no one else possesses. That is your very own kind of “perfection.” It’s natural to compare yourself to others, but there is no need to become someone else. After all, you can’t be anyone else, and there’s something only you can express.
Your emotions, thoughts, and actions make up who you are, and all of these elements are “perfect.” Perfection is not about achieving something or having everything; it’s about fully embracing “being you.”
The First Step to Loving Yourself
Realizing that “you are already a perfect being” is the first step to loving yourself. Try to let go of the expectations and pressure you might have, such as “I have to be like this” or “I must achieve this.” Speak kindly to yourself and say, “This is enough; I am enough.”
Of course, having ambitions and working toward goals is wonderful. However, this journey should not come from a place of self-denial but rather from a desire to enjoy and discover more about your already perfect self. Simply being present in this moment means you are already complete.
In Conclusion
The idea that “you are already a perfect being” is not about dismissing the process of personal growth. On the contrary, it’s about viewing your growth and changes as a “perfect self evolving further.” This mindset allows you to have confidence and peace within yourself.
Accepting and loving who you are is the key to experiencing true “perfection.” So, no matter what situation you are in or what emotions you are dealing with, try telling yourself, “I am perfect just as I am.” You might find yourself feeling calmer and more at peace.
You are, at this very moment, a perfect being.
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