Have you ever heard of the “Law of Attraction” or the phrase “Your wishes will come true”? Many people are inspired by ideas like “If you set your intention, it will happen,” “If you choose, reality will follow,” or “If you decide, things will move.”
But in reality, it’s not as simple as “just choose anything you want.”
Each of us has things we can choose and things we can’t.
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Are Our True Desires Already Decided?
What we love, what we desire, what we want to do- These aren’t things we decide with our heads, but rather, they naturally well up from deep within our hearts.
For example, you can’t force yourself to love a food you dislike, right?
In the same way, your true likes and wishes are already decided within you from the start.
Can You Really Have Anything You Wish For?
We’d like to believe, “If I set any goal, it will come true,” or “If I choose any dream, I can achieve it.” But in reality, you can only choose and attract what you already have the ‘seed’ for inside you.
So, how can you discover the wishes that will truly come true for you and attract them into reality?
I’ll share concrete steps for discovering your true desires and changing your reality.
A. Three Exercises to Discover Your True Desires
① Write Down Moments That Move Your Heart
First, write in a notebook about moments in daily life when you felt excited, drawn to something, or lost track of time. These are clues to your true desires.
② Remove “Other People’s Eyes”
Set aside what you “should” do or what will get you praise from others.
Ask yourself: What do I truly want to do, just for myself?
③ Fulfill Small Wishes First
Don’t start with a big dream. Begin by granting yourself small wishes, like eating what you want today or going somewhere you feel like visiting. By accumulating these small successes, you’ll become more aware of your true desires.
B. How to Choose Desires That Have a “Seed” Inside You
You can’t attract what isn’t already inside you. That’s why it’s important to choose desires that have a “seed” within.
- Does thinking about this wish make your heart feel warm?
- When you imagine achieving it, do you feel excited?
- Even if there are obstacles, do you still want it?
If you can answer “YES” to these, you’ve found a true desire.
C. Steps to Make Your Wish a Reality
- Put Your Wish Into Words
Example: Write down, “I want to achieve ___.” - Take a Small First Step
You don’t need to take huge action right away. Start with what you can do now. - Believe It Will Come True and Keep Going
It’s okay to feel uncertain sometimes. Trust your desire and keep moving forward, one step at a time.
Summary
“You can’t attract what isn’t inside you.”
That’s why the first step to making your dreams come true is to discover your true desires.
By being honest with your heart, choosing what you truly want, and believing in it as you take action,
your reality will begin to change.
I hope you find your “true desire” and see it become reality.
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